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Mirrors
Mirrors are an interesting topic as
everyone can relate to on some level. Okay but what is a
mirror you may ask? Physical mirrors aside, mirrors are
based on the principle that everything in the external world is
simply a reflection of our internal landscape. It’s part
of the law of attraction. We attract certain people into
our lives, our friends and partners that mirror a part of
ourselves.
Basically we reflect or
“mirror” our issues and life lessons onto other
people...so they reflect what we need to work on at the time.
This is done very much on a sub-conscious level, until we
become aware of it. As we grow as a person and our
lessons change, we start to attract new people into our life
that reflect our new way of being. This is the main
reason why friends and lovers depart from our lives. We
have learnt the lesson and are ready to move on! This can
be confusing for the other person, as they may not really
understand this.
One must be very honest and place the ego
aside, as a mirror can reveal what one would prefer not to
know. When you realise that a mirror is a gift you have
the opportunity to see it in a different light. If
someone in your life really annoys you, she/he is reflecting a
part of yourself that you don’t like. If someone in
your life is controlling you, you need to look at your own
lesson of self-control and that of others. If you allow
other people to simply “be”, others will mirror
that. If we find someone in your life is judging us, we
need to look at our own lesson of judgment and how we can be
less judgmental
It’s quite a complex system that is
ultimately there to help us on our journey. You really
need to examine your relationships honestly in order to see the
mirror. When you change yourself, you change the mirror.
People in your life that no longer match your mirror will
drift away as you have less and less in common with them.
This can seem sad at first, but the other person also has
the opportunity to change as well. Next time your feeling
a victim, take a closer look at your mirrors!